Fort Irwin Army Wife.

I married a soldier on 7 March 2013. What they don’t tell you when you marry into the military is you marry the job as well. For the first two and half months of my marriage I was apart from my love because I had to finish high school. (Please don’t focus on that part of this story though.)

In May is when I was able to join my love in Fort Irwin, CA. I was warned about this place. I was told it had one of the highest divorce rates. I was spending most of my first and hardest years of marriage in a place that tore them down. That terrified me.

Well I’m past the one year mark now and I’m more in love with my husband now than I was when we first got married. We are surviving Fort Irwin. My husband along with many other soldiers leave for two weeks every month for training. Sometimes we get lucky and they are only out there for a short time and the work days are just longer instead. Other times, I won’t get to see my love except for a few hours out of that whole time.

The reason I’m have started this blog is because I have a lot of friends who ask me how I do it and other friends who think I should quit my whining because my husband isn’t deployed. This whole thing is an “experiences may vary”. What I go through is what I go through. I don’t feel it’s fair to undermine what I experience just because it’s different from you. So this is to help people understand how I deal with my husband being gone even if it’s for a short time for you.

Some things to know before I go; I have depression, severe anxiety, and I’m a very sensitive person. After a certain amount of time I get anxiety attacks when my husband is gone. It used to be worst and I’ve been working on it a lot. So my husband being gone may affect me differently than you.

Again these are my experiences and may differ from yours. I will start posting these every Wednesday from now on. I hope you enjoy.

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4 thoughts on “Fort Irwin Army Wife.

  1. I got tears coming down. Very open and honest and straight forward. You’re so right how every situation is different. Being away from eachother is the hardest part and every wife deals with it in their own way no matter if it’s hours, days, weeks or months apart. I hope those who read this relate to you and go, hey I’m not the only one who feels these things. Well expressed and I commend you for sharing such personal feelings. Looking forward to reading it every week.

  2. Lorene hartman says:

    I just had to tell you how proud I am of you. I read your posts and realize what a wonderful young women you have become. Love us, Hon.

  3. Hi! I’m an Army wife as well! I’ve heard the same things about Fort Irwin and I am glad to see that you are overcoming! Thank you for sharing your story here and giving others hope of what they may achieve! I look forward to reading! Have a blessed day!

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